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→Things NOT to Say
'''* Services used and the price paid (detailing time and extras charged). Mention enthusiasm, attitude, time keeping.'''
''* Good practice to post a picture'' (if available.)
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Give a '''negative''' rating as a warning to other punters about the provider. There is a range of opinion about how you should treat dishonesty, misrepresented services, fake pictures and poor value in terms of the overall rating. In these instances, pointing out how you arrived at your rating will leave the punter better informed about whether they want to visit.
It should go without saying that if you just choose never to repeat that you should give a positive to an escort that is worth a repeat if you did such things. The words on this page are meant to be helpful not restrictive.
===Logistics===
#Try to be objective and factual. Avoid hyperbole; use superlatives sparingly. 'I found her attractive' is factual. 'She is the best looking girl in Birmingham' is not. Remember you can be as [[Fluffies|fluffy]] as you wish DURING the meeting but do not come across as delusional no matter how good the GFE illusion provided by the WG had been. While there is not full agreement, many UKP members look for balance in a review. You can write a Positive review without the mindset of recommending. You are simply stating what happened to you. It could be the most positive punt you have ever had, but the neutral mindset (without the word 'recommend') may help you write a good review.
# Be cautious in using rating scales. If you review multiple girls, others may see a pattern and see whether they can relate to your taste, etc. So it is important to be consistent. If, for example, you are using some sort of rating system then whatever the numerical scale you use, make sure the scores you award to different girls are such that the difference in the values somehow reflect the difference between the reviewed girls for that specific attribute (e.g. looks). Giving everyone 10/10 or the same score unless truly great or really equal defeats the purpose of having a scale.
# Note the following forum rule 4 on re-reviews: "A new review thread can only be created once a service provider an escort has agreed to a booking. A meet does not need to take place, and money does not need to change hands. The only criteria are is that she had accepted the initial booking. Members can post more than one review about an SP, but touting will result in a ban. Reviews are allowed up to 6 months (for new members, this rule is currently relaxed to 12 months) after the event(positive or negative). Only one sex worker can be the subject of a review, not a whole agency/establishment/ brothel. The exception is sex parties, duos etc. and massage establishments where providers do not have names."# Do not use derogatory descriptions of the escort like she was fat or ugly (beauty is in the eye of the beholder). Remember the SP may be reading the review and comments can be hurtful and being an escort can be a lonely and mentally and physically demanding job. Do not to add to someone's challenges by being nasty. You can say you didn't enjoy it without being nasty. Nasty comments is one of the reasons escorts don't like UKP. It's in all our interests to be respectful to escorts just we like escorts to be respectful to us.# Do not share personal details that escorts may share with you in private conversations like if they're married, have kids, where they're from, their opinions on their place of work etc. Sharing this information can cause escorts problems. Discretion is important both ways, so respect the escorts privacy just as you would expect them to respect yours.
# Many members like to end with a summary of positives and negatives.
# ''What happened next is private.'' Say what you want to say, and leave out what you need to leave out to protect your privacy. If you can't write in simple terms what happened, then don't write a review.
# ''She is a real gem and I want to keep her for myself.'' There is nothing factual here.
# ''Treat her well / with respect''. As if the readers were going to treat her poorly but since you wrote this, now they wont? Please provide facts, not instructions.
#''See her while you can. You will not be disappointed''. You don't know what other punters want. You don't know what service she will provide next time. This is not reviewing your punt, these are words of a pimp.
#''She is so good she should raise her prices'' You do not know an escort's business model, you are a punter. Raising prices might not help her. Also, UKP represents the interests of punters and any statement that encourages price rises is counter to the principles of the board.
#''Thanks Ms Escort, I had a great time''. The review area is for you to provide factual guidance to other punters, not to send messages to escorts.
# ''This is my first review, be gentle.'' We can see it it is your first review. We will give feedback to your review ... you don't write it to be ignored. And if we don't tell you things now, how will you improve? We are always gentle ... it is only pixels.
# ''If you can't afford Elite Escorts at this price point, then don't comment.'' Just review per the guidelines. If others want to mention that you paid too much, they can. No need to be defensive in advance.
# ''Well reviewed lady so won't be going into tons of detail''. Just write a basic but complete review, don't make excuses. You should not make the reader look at all the other reviews to get the basics - a complete review only takes a few sentences anyway.
===Example Reviews that were good or bad===
==See also==
*[[Guide to responding to UKP reviews]]*[[How_to_ask_for_advice_on_UKpunting]]
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