For the purpose of this article, sex parties are paid for sex events, where individual men pay to attend and have sex with one or more escorts. Swinger parties, by contrast, are where all attendees are not paid - any contribution is for the organiser or venue, not to the others having sex. There is clearly overlap in real life, as Swinger couples or females may attend a sex party, and there could be some paid-for escorts at a Swinger party. There is also variation in whether all sex is in public, and whether the sex is like an orgy (MFF, MMFF and so on) or private. Men normally pay to attend the party, rather than pay to have sex with a particular girl.
Venue versus Organiser
For many parties, the venue and the organiser are the same. The Phoenix club has a lease on a flat, so the location is TPC, and TPC parties are at the location. In contrast, some party organisers (e.g. Fuck Club) book different locations for every party - even hotel rooms. Some of these locations are themselves Swinger clubs. So the venue may have Swingers parties on one evening, and Sex parties (perhaps managed by a separate party organiser) on different evenings.
A particular party where normally 4+ men attend and there is only one escort. Any number of men and women is of course possible and a high ratio sex party can be a called a gang bang. High ratio sex partiers are also called 'Greedy Girl' parties and confusingly this is also the name used by one party organiser.
It is difficult to talk about Sex parties in the UK without a particular mention of TPC (formally known as Lady Marmalade's Parties or LMP). That is because they have been having 3 parties per day, 5-6 days per week for many years. They thus have capacity for 10,000 men per year - so even if they only manage part capacity, this is likely more than all other sex parties combined. Many of the norms and questions about TPC will apply to other parties too.
The norms at TPC
There will be 6 women and 8 to 12 men. The men will shower and change into robes. The women will be in lingerie. All move into one room with 3 beds and a swing and have sex. It is very common for a girl to give one man an OWO BJ, while another is giving her RO or sex. The men take breaks to recharge - the women take few, so there are many opportunities for 1-1 sex too. The girls have their own discretion so some kiss some don't. There is no MM interaction. There is infrequent FF interaction since the women are busy with the men. it is common for men to leave before the 2 hours is up, so any man left for the last 15 minutes may get the attentions of several women.
Q. What is is like being naked in front of other guys? A. Most men are worried about this prior to their first party. Almost all report that they concentrate on the girls and barely notice the other guys, so this is a non issue.
Q. What if fat/ugly/small dick? A. Normal guys attend of all ages shapes and sizes, and seldom notice each other.
Q. What about hygiene? A. All sex is covered, but there is only wet wipes between RO, kissing and OWO. Not for the ultra hygiene conscious.
TPC is £160 for 2 hours. Many parties are about this rate, indexed for time, ratio and quality of girl. Thus if the ratio is 3:1 a two hour party target price is about £100. The cheaper parties are often £80 - this can work out well if you attend on a quiet day, but could be a false economy if it is very busy, if the men are 'pussy blockers' or you don't fancy the women. At a small party such as LSP with 3 women, the risk of not liking the particular girls is greater.
List of Party organisers
|Bi Gangbang Parties||London (Southwark)||£100 2 hour||Ratio can be up to 5:1 AW Page reviews|
|Bi Fun Club||Sutton||£55 4 hours||Ratio high, many swingers and Tgirls AW Page rev1 rev2 external link|
|Cambridge Parties||Cambridge (& Reading & Birmingham)||£220 2.5 hour||Cambridge AW Page They are also Sexy Soiree These have 3 positive reviews|
|The Phoenix Club||Marble Arch||£160 2 hour||3 per day, Full 2 hours in party.|
|Pam's Parties||Crystal palace||Not open currently.|
|London Adult Party Club||Dagenham (at The Spa)||£60 for 3 hr 8-11PM Wed||Several Milf and size 14+ girls. Ration could be 5:1 Swingers sometimes attend. Link|
|London Adult Party Club||various Central London locations||£100 for 3 hours.||Several MIlf and size 14+ girls. Lower ratio. Run by 'John' Invitation only.Review Link|
|London Sex Parties||Stockwell (London SW9)||£80 2 hour||3 girls typical 10 guys. (stated max 4:1). Hosted by BBW Rebecca Ryder|
|London Swingers Adult Parties||Camden||£80 4 hours||3 girls, sex sequential 1-1s, eve usually, occasionally Thursday 1 to 5pm|
|GBparties||Sutton (at Lady P's)||£150 2 hours||ration said to be 3:1, Porn Stars|
|Greedy Girls Parties||Sutton (at Lady P's), Bristol, Brighton etc||£60 2 hours||aka Debbie's GG Parties. 15 parties per month day and eve, could be 40 guys and 10-12 girls. See their page for more locations.Sutton parties £100 and Kensington £120|
|Fuck Club||Leeds, London, Midlands||£130 2 hours||AW Link Reviews|
|Hot Box||Northampton||£120 2hours||Last Friday of month this brothel does 3 x 2 hr parties venue|
|Le Jeu Escorts||Peterborough||£400 4hours||Plush location, ratio 1:1 Review|
|Lady P's Brunch party||Sutton||£70 4 hours||High ratio|
|Carolina Parties (aka Terry’s)||Croydon||£130 3 hours||review 3 Girl afternoon parties, 3:1 and not a full 3 hours. Also do monthly larger parties (9 girls ratio 2:1), but no reviews yet. TOFTT?|
|Splat Bukkake Party||WMids: Private Club or RedRoom or Bristol-Debbies venue||£60 2.5 hours||Review|
|The Paradise Spa||Dagenham||£50 5 hours||Mostly a swinger venue, but do their own sex parties ('coffee morning') Wed morning. Rev|
|The Private Club||Aston||£60 - £75 4 hours||High ratio|
|Intimate Control||Dudley (at Valhalla)||£40 to £60 2 hours||Several parties a week organised by Intimate or girls like Harley 2-3 girls. And if lucky a swinger. This club has swinger events and sex parties, see diary. Rev|
|The Retro Club||Walsall||£40 (+annual membership £20)||Monday parties 12 to 6 with 2 girls taking it in turns, also Tue Wed and Friday events Rev1 Rev2 rev3. Requires ID to enter.|
|Unit 8 (Sheffield Parlour)||Sheffield||£110 3 hours||2 Parties a month, 7-10 pm mid week Comment Reviews May 16 Nov 16 Jan 17 and Venue|
List of specialist venues
|Le Boudoir Club||London City||The venue A large BDSM type swingers club and venue.|
|The Blue Door Dungeon||Islington||The venue Guess what, it is a dungeon. Book by hour.|
|Hoxton Dungeon Suite||Hoxton N1||The venue with resident mistress. Min booking 4 hour.|
|Kestrels||Heathrow||The venue a Naturist spa with pool and playrooms. See also The Times reports on 1 Aug 2016 that they lost an appeal and it will be shut for breaking green belt rules|
|The Paradise Spa||Dagenham||The venue a Naturist club.|
|Murder Mile Studio||Clapton, London E5||The venue a themed, fetish friendly photographic studio and dungeon for hire.|
|The Private Club||Aston||The venue an adult club. Requires ID to get in.|
|Radlett Adult parties||Radlett (near Watford)||The venue a Swingers club.|
|Rio's Naturist Spa||Kentish Town (London)||The venue a Naturist spa. Rev Had a fire in Nov 2016|
|The Secret Dungeon||High Wycombe||The venue a dungeon.|
|The Valhalla Club||Dudley (near Birmingham)||The venue a Naturist club. Above it, is Scarlets|
|The Vanilla Alternative||Tempsford SG19 (between Bedford and Cambridge)||£20 to £40 for normal events.||The venue a Naturist club. Debbies GG has some parties here.|
|Top Floor Studio||Bristol BS15||£25 per hour to use venue. Events priced by organiser||The venue a Studio. Some gangbang and swinger parties here.|